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Do you control your own feelings?

An urge arrives already moving. By the time you notice it, it has been running for a while — and noticing is the whole of the opportunity.

You govern choices; you are only ever aware of urges.

The authority is in noticing an urge in the gap before it becomes an action.

What this settles

Which splits a question people ask as one. Control over what arrives: none. Control over what happens next: entire — and the second is where every practice in the foundation does its work.

Not this question

Do you author your own reactions?

Also in this footing, and a different question. It answers that half of what you do arrives complete, before you had any say.

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Where this is worked out

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I Couldn't Help It

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Do you control your own feelings?

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The two systems

What arrives in you already moving and what you build by weighing — which half you govern, which half you only ever witness, and how the switch between them is thrown. 3 of the 4 here have been worked through; the rest are on the map and not yet walked.

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